when i was 23 i just accepted my first major job making good money at a fortune 500 company. They had me staying at a hotel in Oklahoma to shadow a rep and the only thing within walking distance was a twin peaks. I'm not an incel and I am a fairly attractive male. Women have never been an issue for me. I walk into that twin peaks and boy did they play me like a fn fiddle. I was greeted by two smoking hot identical twin sisters. They hung out in my booth telling me how they were trying to avoid some creepy guy hitting on them in the back of the restaurant and asked if they could hang out with me since i was "cool." Well like 6 tall boys later I left there hammered with an expensive tab. I got their numbers but they didn't text back. I knew they wouldnt the second i left that place. To this day I tip my cap to those two girls. They know exactly how to play it.


I don't get the lazy man thing. I am a 43 year old doctor and I work at least 50 hours per week, 60 with the commute. You know what I do when I get home at night? The damn dishes, it takes 10 minutes. Then I pick up a few things around the house, another 10 minutes. On the weekend I do a good pick up, do most of the laundry, probably a total of 2 hours of constant work. It isn't hard, whats hard is the constant arguing, the gross childishness of expecting others to clean up after yourself. Its ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ ridiculous and I'll be damned if my son leaves my house thinking that women are there to work and take care of us.

Very quickly my Pokemon catching dreams were obliterated by the unfortunate reality that exist for a Black Man in America. I realized that if I keep playing this game, it could literally kill me


I went to IU, the same school Jared went to. He famously lived in the apartments above the Subway near campus. The rumor I heard was that he was creeping out a teenage employee at the Subway, so she got transferred to the one downtown, a couple miles away. Instead of eating at the Subway below his apartment, he would walk to the one downtown every day to see this teenage girl. So it really wasn't the sandwiches that made him lose weight, it was because he was walking daily to see an underage girl.

I couldn't even finish reading all the headlines cause I was about to start crying. This ♥♥♥♥ is why I am so close to becoming nuclear. My family has asked me to "not be political" whenever I even go near family events. I have looked my family dead in the eyes and have told them, "I am a lesbian woman who is white appearing. I did not get a choice in the matter. I am political cause everyone else has deemed my existence as a political issue."

They never seem to know how to respond to that.

This reminded me of when I was camping in Burger King for free wifi when I saw a short midget calling himself CP3 come in! He said he was broke and begged the cashier for free onion rings. I laughed and told him, “No onion rings for you Christopher! You will be ringless forever! Go lose another NBA finals!” Once he heard the words “NBA finals”, he started CHOKING until he passed out! Shame on that short fraud! I’ll see him homeless on the streets soon, and know I nice cardboard box for him to live in!


I don't know you, but I defended your honor. In a stinky little dive bar at 1am, A story was told about a young man's college days. He joked about receiving the gift of your virginity, then ghosting you, then calling you up wasted to have sex again. You were the punch line of his disgusting joke. My friend and I have been that woman before. We were baffled. We had to learn our self worth the hard way too.

We calmly and firmly explained to him his behavior was unacceptable. Surprisingly he was receptive and explained he felt remorse for his behavior In the past and in the present. He used humor to negate his guilt at the expense of a young womans dignity. Ew.

In that moment, I felt strong in my femininity. Without aggression or hate, I defended you and changed this man's perspective so that he will do better in the future. I don't know you, but I defended your honor, and I would do it again.

Ladies, we are more powerful than we know. We are all sisters navigating these waters as one. Together we can change the tides toward equality. Stick together and when given the chance defend one another.

defendherhonor


I have a liquor store story!

In line and two early 20s white guys kept loudly using the n-word with each other. An older white woman asked them to please stop using the word as she could sense an ass whopping was near. They called her old and laughed her off. An older black woman also asked them to stop. They rolled their eyes. The store security approached them and asked that they stop being disruptive. They laughed harder.

An older black man asked them to stop offending him and everyone else. They finally got fed up with people approaching them I guess and one of them called the man this word right to his face. He punched him in the face and the friend he was with ran out the store and left him knocked out cold. People then stepped over him to take his place in line. I got out of there because I was already feeling like the location was sketchy. It was best that I sober up! Lol

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