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I don't understand why some people lie about everything. Small lies can have huge consequences, even tho they might seem small or irrelevant.

I also don't understand people who go huge lengths just to avoid someone. If you dislike someone, then tell them instead of going invisible or ghosting them, it's really not that hard to be honest; and certainly not towards friends who you might even consider your best friends.

Same goes with people who actively avoids issues. It's better to talk about a issue, than to avoid one, certainly if one person isn't aware that there is a issue, but the other one does, yet still doesn't say anything, while watching the issue become bigger, and bigger, until it ruins everything.

I also don't understand people who tries to gaslight or manipulate people for no reason. Either just for fun, to gain something, or if they're caught doing something, which they know isn't right.

Not every relationship and friendship is worth it. If a person is hurting you a lot more, than doing anything good, then it's better to move on. It's always a good idea to try and fix the issue, but it's not always that a issue can be fixed.

I don't understand people who make up fake excuses for everything towards friends, just to avoid telling the truth. If you truly consider the person a friend, then the person also has the right to know the truth about why they're getting avoided.

I also don't understand people who try to pass their friends in everything, even sometimes going big lengths just to do so. If someone wastes their whole night playing a game while invisible in an attempt to beat you in something, and then making a new excuse each time exposed, then you should consider finding a new friend.

If you're the only person who is contributing something to a relationship or friendship, then it might be time to think about the worth of the relationship.