r/dating_advice u/ratsmacker47 • 6h
Going on a date with a trans guy, would it be wrong to call him "Big dog" as a greeting?
I'm 24M, bisexual. I've dated mostly women or trans women in my life so i'm not really good at interacting with guys but recently I hit it off with a trans guy off Bumble.
He doesn't present masculine but does not refer to himself as anything other than male and I want to honor that and give him the full guy-to-guy experience, i'm thinking of dapping him up and saying something like "What's up big dog, how's it going, i'm ratsmacker" or something.
Would that be too guy-ish? Any advice is welcome.

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How do you reframe the thought that wife's ex had longer?

My gf hadnt really told me, or I dont really hVe idea on whos the longest shes ever had but my mind is tricking me that her ex might hav longer ♥♥♥♥♥ which translates to the fact that in terms of territory, their ♥♥♥♥♥ might have gone to places deeper inside her vagina that mine has not ever reached before.

If there's scientific or any other perspectivr that might challenge this thinking, I'd appreciate it.

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How do I ask my friend to sit in the chair I bought for him?

I have a friend who is 400+ pounds. He's a really nice person and he comes to my house for monthly movie nights with friends. But he's broken my couch twice and it's cost me $1000 overall to repair it twice. The couch just isn't rated for his weight as it's an antique.

I bought a side chair rated up to 500 lbs. What is a gentle and kind way to express that this is his chair? I don't want to embarress him but I can't keep fixing my couch.