Hi get a loved one, or if really truely wanting insight so bad, get the skyrim bible, its super cool priced about £20 from most games dealers, it will take the stress out, and let the fun begin : ). I love mine would buy in hard back if if i could find 1 : ) Some guys will disagree , and say exporation is is the total key to skyrim, but i say enjoy use when you want to, explore/discover when you want.