Take pride in what you your self have done. Treat others as you wish them to treat you. Judge people for what those individuals do. Do not group people together by traits to which they have no control or input. Accept that words have no power unless you give them that power. Accept that a person in the grand scheme of the world, means little to nothing, untill and unless you MAKE yourself worth something to the world. Lastly, Do not surround yourself by people who only echo your personal beliefs. Challenge your own preconceptions by listening and talking to those people who have contridictory ideas to your own. Changing your mind if you find yourself wrong is not weakness.