Hm, with Paradox games, learning the game is a big part of the fun. You just gotta keep going, even losing is okay.
ESPECIALLY in Crusader Kings, where it's near impossible to lose. This is the only game where dying is actually okay, you just continue on as your heir. You could lose an entire kingdom and come back the next generation.

With the Princes of Darkness VTM mod it's also even easier, where you become a more and more powerful vampire to the point you're nigh unbeatable.

I noticed. And combined with VtM setting is pure erection material. But I suck at it big time, haha

This is one of the best grand strategy games out there. The dynamics of it are brilliant, so much can happen.

Wish I could get into this awesome mod. I do love me some strategy games, but I could never click with this one... :(