Ihr seid doch alle nicht mehr ganz bei Trost ;^)

Man can do what he wills, but he cannot will what he wills.
You can choose what to do, but not what to desire.
Your desires arise without your permission, and you act as though you had chosen them — but you did not.
What drives you lies deeper than thought; the will comes first, and your choices merely follow where it leads.

— Arthur Schopenhauer