You can only become a man when you decide what will happen with your life.
He changes his perspective and desides to find what he will do with his life.
He takes constructive critisizm and when he screws up or is told other wise he changes himself to be better.
He then learns and excells in life and with every thing he has adapted to he → → → → → → → → → →→ came out better.←←←←←←←←←←←←