If you're cheating I feel really sorry for you. Using cheaters is looking for a shortcut that won't exist in your life, you need to fight very, very hard to achieve the best things you'll have.

Understand that and be a better person for yourself and for others!

And, before I forget, if you don't know how to play collectively:
Doing stupid things together is more worth it than doing amazing things by yourself.

God bless ya!