Good Evening Ono Chayama,
I'm from the National Urology Society and we received your questions sent to our e-mail, and we're pleased to answer:

1) Yes, 3 inches is considered small. We recommend the surgery process;

2) No, it's not usual for the condom to be loose. There's no XS size;

3) Even if 3 inches is quite small, it is still possible that your partner has an orgazm during sexual relationships, so if it doesn't happen with you as you've mentioned, the lack of competence is your responsibility;

4) No, you can't have a prostate exam, it's only for 50-year-olds or older. Please, do not insist;

5) The attraction to people of the same sex can be a strong sign of homosexual tendencies;

If you have any other questions, we're here to help.
Don't hesitate to get in touch with ashamedofsmalldick@impotence.com

Have a nice evening, you have nothing to be ashamed of.