Learn to pleasure yourself without porn, and take your time with it. Focus on your bodily sensations and make your goal maximizing the quantity of pleasure you can hold in your body for the longest time. Like, marinate in the pleasure, slowly. This practice will bring you back into your body, away from the escape that porn has become for your mind. This can become almost meditative, and highly ecstatic.

This Urtheone brush immediately stood out because it’s the only wooden-handled brush in the pack. While that may not be great if you’re someone who likes to brush your hair while in the shower, I loved this attribute because it made the brush feel especially well made. It wasn’t too heavy or awkward in hand—instead, it felt durable and the extra weight seemed to help it through tangles in both dry and wet hair.

I’m also fond of the rectangular shape of this brush. Because I have a lot of thick, wavy hair, I gravitate towards paddle brushes with a wider surface area—exactly what this brush has—although you can choose from a few other sizes.

This brush has a mix of nylon and boar bristles—something I’d never tried before. This combination of bristles proved useful, as the nylon did most of the detangling, while the boar raked dry skin flakes and other small particles out of my hair better than the brushes that only contained nylon bristles.