Now when I say "hey" messages, I mean sending a guy a message that says "hey" and only "hey." I don’t mean on Grindr, where it is technically “acceptable.” And I use the term “acceptable” here loosely, because while you can do it, it’s not going to get you laid. You really should start the conversation with a picture. (Not an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ or ♥♥♥♥ ♥♥♥, just a regular picture of you is fine.) Or if you do want to start the convo with a message, at least say, “Hey! How’s your day going?”

But as I said, I’m not talking about Grindr. I’m talking about sending “Hey” to a random person on Facebook. Or even worse, “Hey” to a guy after you've hooked up with him once.

A surprising number of gay men on Facebook think that if you don’t respond to “hey” from a stranger, that means they should send “hey” four more times and then proceed to attempt video calling.

And as for the the “hey” text to a guy you’ve slept with. This is a big "no-no."

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