There is a lot to know about me.

I'm a very expressive person, you will know about my hobbies, interests, and favorites in no time if we chat and share a bond together. I do a good job of keeping the conversation going if you seem to care.

Becoming friends is an intimate process to me.

I am not interested in "gaming" friends, let me make that clear. Whenever I accept a friend request, I am expecting a level of intimacy to it. It is a rather significant deal for me to accept friend requests. I'm very open to making new ones as long as you understand this. Your problems will become my problems.

Being a friend is rough work. I will give you my time, acknowledgement, respect, etc. I expect the same, if you find making friends to be a very casual job, someone who has friend-lists in the 150+, chances are this won't work out. Let's talk about our struggles sometime, our day to day lives, be there for each other, no Fair Weather Friend.

I'm very selective of my friends and who I keep, I was very often mistreated by my "friends" when I was a minor. I have trust issues, yet...here I am, still open and forgiving at heart.

I will not entertain your weaknesses.

By design, we are petty by nature. Quite evil and wicked, even. I've learned this the hard way being around people who will flip on you on a dime. There are those who are more mature and developed, those with better control.

As someone that sees anger as a weakness, your immature, uncouth behavior will discourage me. I'm no saint, nowhere near perfect, but chances are you an adult, and you know better. Got an issue? Let's work it out. No need for grudges, a lot of us are here to escape everything that is bad and just have a good time.

I understand all friendships has its ups and downs, but I do not like my time wasted, and if I feel like you are not making an active effort to improve yourself around me, I will unfortunately cut ties.

I do forgive, forgiveness is not a privilege but just a human right. But due to my unfortunate past online, my heart will sometimes tell me it is not worth it. It's a self-struggle of mine caused by certain individuals and groups.

Please, just be civil and reasonably minded. Be self-aware of your behavior and tendencies before interacting me. Do not waste my time for me to just tell you, you are too uncivilized for me. Decent morals are very important and dear to me.

There are people who do bad things out of habit but not out of ill-intent. And there are people who are just full of malice the moment you do not see things their way. Given my experience with many, many toxic men, I can distinguish between the two.

Other things to note.

I'm a morning person, so I will be up and about around 6:15AM till around 12AM EST. I'm most likely available to talk all day long unless I say otherwise.

I am extremely open, there's very little I wont answer to. I am open to new peeps, and will gladly spend my time with you and see if we could work things out. If not, we can always end on good terms.

I don't mind a little vulgar language, banter, pokes/playful jabs, etc. I often make jokes about my past and my unfortunate events anyways. As formal as I may seem here, many will find out I am more of a goober that types as much as they sleep.

I'm very blunt and direct. I was never good with words so sometimes I type things in a way that might confuse others, sorry about that. Those who are sensitive or defensive might have a harder time around me. Ultimately, I will try my best to be a good person at the end of the day.

I am not the best around people of the Furry fandom, sorry. The more you make it your personality, the less interest I have in you. I have plenty of furs that makes it their avatar but doesn't bombard me everyday by their "awooga" talk and stickers.

I prefer Discord, so if we met on Steam, chances are we won't chat there for long.


You will not hear me.

I have many friends who I've hung around 2014 who hasn't heard my voice to this day, and while I've yet to meet someone who makes my "mute" habits an issue in recent time, I found out that this is important info to share with any future-comers here as a first impression note.

I lack game variety and you probably cant change that.

I'm no modern player, I do not keep up with the scene with whatever is new and trending. What you see in my game library now is what I've had for years and years. My friends try to suggest new games to me, but I just don't budge.

I am more of a chatting type friend than gaming. It is important to know that due to my self-aware behavior, It's noted that not everyone enjoys the way I game. Nonetheless, if you really wish to play with me, please familiarize yourself with my game library at your convenience, or ask me about it.


-tModLoader

-Wizard101

-League of Legends {Haiky#OGSol}

-Monster Hunter:World {Not Rise!}

-Rain World

-Killing Floor 2

-Planetside 2 [Emerald, NC]

I REALLY like watching people play games! Please, if none of these interest you, let me watch you game! It proves as an excellent way to get to know each other.


To be more direct, this is for those who knew me under a different alias, before "Haiky."

Over the course of many months, I will start removing and blocking certain individuals. More specifically a group of individuals who knew me a really long time ago but were never really my friend as time moves onto present day.

I simply wish to not remember you anymore, as I wish for you to not remember me anymore too. Your seeking, lurking and dust-collecting is no longer welcomed. Unfortunately, I cannot stop you from stalking and I've accepted this. If you resort to this, then truly, it is painfully obvious to why I've cut ties with you.

I've made the mistake of being friends brewing toxic behavior, waiting to screw you over at a moments' notice. Or holds the value of being a "friend" way too insignificant for me to be okay with. I'm not your meme buddy, not your gamer buddy, and for sure not going to surround myself around toxic people.

I am myself, and the choices on how I decide how to handle my online life is my own. And I've decided to get rid of those who stopped being my friend through time, friends who are friends with very dangerous people to me, or just really bad individuals who hurt me in the past, attempted to rekindle, apologize to me, but has not done anything more past that. I forgive all through time, but unfortunately, the damage is done, and you sit there in my friend-list not providing anything after I've given you my forgiveness. It is your time to go now, as it seems that is all you've ever wanted.

Now I will surround myself with new people. People who I've known for as long as you did, but I can value enough as a "friend" because we shared the same, intimate ideals of one.

Truly, this is something I've wanted done for years. Over 8 years ago, actually. I initially wanted to make a new profile and all, but I've accepted I cannot run as I will always be found by the stalkers. You win, but I am blocking you at worst. And you are out of my life.

Thankfully, a lot of people who are affected by this are just people I simply couldn't connect with, or too busy to be friends, which I totally accept, but still recognize my reasoning for this. So thank you for the memories and attempts, but it is time to move on as it is my wish.

Please respect my wishes if I have removed you. You already stopped acknowledging me long-ago, collecting dust. Why acknowledge me now?

Thank you all.

-Haiky, Princess Snowdrop