Just because you can "help" a person doesn't mean you really should.

Sure you can flex your richness and affordability, or they could just be simple gesture to hide your stinginess, not anymore in this ♥♥♥♥♥♥ post-covid economy, all I see are more take, and less give.

If you want to "help", make sure the context "This person can be saved after helping" or "He will change for the better after the opportunity given" is there and exists, don't just plainly give your help to people you barely understand, even those close to you, you don't understand them, not everything.

Your altruistic practice to "Help" only spoils them and make them asks for more, if not worse, and it can go anywhere "Unfavourable" most of the time, but hey, you have your own opinion.

Hate, grudges, scandals drama are always the heavier side of demand. Supply the public their copium, and you'll get loved a lot.

Be kind, merciful, humble and you'd fall out, too generic for others to hang out with you and cope through their stressful life, you're just a boring person to hang out it. Its how evilness slowly consumes the world, and there is nothing anyone can do anything about it.

The civilised regulations and rules you see today, a result of competing rivalling industries to shut down one another, being a good guy is never an option, even as a group, and will never beat the greed of those embracing hate, a stronger, clearer emotion, and more interesting to the public, to look at others suffering.

Workplace mindset is a good place to put your mask on, it is never your responsibility to teach EVERYTHING you know to newcomers or your responsibility to excel insanely to compete with others unrivalled,
why bother against people that barely look much at the outside world when they can be bothered by the smallest unfairness they prejudiced from your awesomeness. Heck they might even turn the knowledge you pass on against you at some point to get you fired.

Learn humbleness and moderation, there is no right or wrong and no dress to impress, if they picked on a weakness of yours, be it fat, poor English accent, greedy, playful, lazy or whatnot, that is just 1 out of the 2000 weaknesses everyone have, move on, they're lesser than working ants to bother with.

Reward reinforcement, database analysis, 1 zillion re-iterations to adapt, improvise, overcome. Next 50 year of your life ruined by AI.
Artist? gone, surgical and medical student? gone, best story-writing authors? gone, financial advisor sports coach? chess & E-sport competitors? beaten by OpenAI, cosmetic makeup? just let AI decide.

Solutions invented can't keep up, only to control 1 problem out of 10000, why bother?

Just keep creating, inventing and providing without looking back, thats just literal programming dumpster you left from the previous company you worked at for newcomers to deal with, and when they accumulate, you'd think it won't backfire someday..

Action ain't consequences anymore, its the inevitable that's coming,
mistakes may even barely be forgiven these days,
there is no mercy to lack of work proficiency in the current human resource demands and expectations.
You'll see... how distinct the gap separates the unworthy and the smarts.

Cancel Culture, theres right, wrong, neutral, or.. ignore it in the 1st place, just because they're there does not mean you need to ♥♥♥♥ care. If genshin gets no.1 then let it be, thats reality, face it.

Religion and a race? marketing tool for fashion & looks, imagine teaching 12 years old cosplayng.

On general cancel culture, we ostracize individuals on social media, can't do it on irl politics, but hey free will of speech on social media.

Feel like someone got too much gain & think they don't deserve it? Well, thats a you problem, immense Luck Issue certified . Can't stop em even if wat they did is stupid.
Hate made them more popular instead, idols can be not seisou now, elon musk is a must now, the school leader you hated lands on 3 of your crush, best thing about it is, its ok for us, not you.

You think spitting poison can favour ur timeline? We all must be Dragonborn huh.
Wants someone else to suffer at our own convenience? the steps we take to do that, ironic

Remember when you succeed in something, chances are, theres other individuals out there have to suffer from failure and forgotten. Good thing some don't count their effort and just move on. Its all but a desire meter.

Whats your baseline satisfaction?
I'm fine with being apart of that effort, no one told me I have to reach the top, lifewise I know my own life is carrying on a dozen others' fate in the future but hey, do I want to go higher? Did any successful individual actually -attach- with any of you, aside from commentators that just want to earn their credit speech and gets acknowledge in some "inspiring" workshop discussion? Name me one, where their time go? you want to be like them? really?

Population x Competition-demand-expectations cool story, chasing dreams forever, when was enough actually enough?

ever thought about shrinking everyone or gigant-sizing our food? and not running off space?

With everything recorded/archived, everyone gets foreknowledge and easily prepared, aside from memory training, with everyone doing the same thing based off a guide, how can you trust who perform better?

Instinct? gone, brainstorm? copied creativity.
You ever build ur own steps that the world haven't made yet? or still following behind someone's example cause its proven right?
"Cheap" don't exists anymore, opportunities are limited

Copyright & Referencing important, but not overused/abused to a brain-dead fashion, you copy this I copy that, nothing can go wrong, yet you question why you get bored so.. quickly from anything you do (and actually thinking you're good at it), after borrowing all the data to make it easier for you, curious..

Insecure of trying the unknown? scare of losing?
You're no different from a robot clone for thinking like that

Have 1 kid, or play gacha.
The results are analysed, and I will only say it once, through nationally representative data, particularly US.

The US estimated the total cost at $234,000, given that you opt to free public schools etc, which is still a high 6 figure estimate, with annual inflation hitting up your ass in every necessity sector by 2.2% per year,
we're converting USD into some of our 3rd-rate country currency, and your kid wants to study abroad, make it significantly higher than the estimation

you can sell gacha for sure, but can kids return investment? because you shouldn't ever expect to rationally, and you have to commit to raising them until adulthood
there even is a point where you can multi-gacha so hard, actually earning more than not having both, that you can afford to adopt a kid and do a skip.
the JP got this all through and through man
i'm telling ya, they're investing in pixels worth more than NFT

Friend Favoritism

A social psychological phenomenon appearing around the year 2014

Friend Favoritism is the act of prioritizing concerns to 1 close-knitted circle group of friends, to gain favors from one another for a better social outlook, to a point that they just can't afford their time for anyone else that doesn't considered to be part of their group.

The act of Friend Favoritism is often very clear and direct form of ignoring new member of their own group

With sincerity surely this won't happen, but it will, cunning, deceit, that 1 member lead that poor guy's impression to the sewer, when slight discrimination exists, or people like them deemed unnecessary for such new person into their group, which is quite retǺrded since they put out the open invitation for us to walk towards them to begin with, that would just mean they're enjoying flexing their close circle group to randoms and basically tends to ignore the rest of those invited for the rest of the time.

Social Coping

Social flexing is totally normal, we want to look good in the crowds, become cultured spotlight that everyone would acknowledge, and boy do we go ALL THE WAY in all sorts of effort into doing it.
The inner copium is an abyssal void. Even though we have already gain the satisfiable amount of impression people look at us, we still keep doing it.

Our biological neural, the monke brian, is a mechanic that is constantly seeking 4 different types of copium, aka DOSE:
Dopamine
Oxytocin
Serotonin
Endorphin

As long as 1 of them remains unfilled from your coping activities of gambling, waifu collectin, money flexin, career flexin, onlyfans member club or whatever, you are depressed, even if you filled 3 out of 4 copium.
What does this all means? Your lifestyle might not be coping at the right way right now, seek help.
it is optional that you destroy the world in all forms of aspect possible
Remember, always keep in-check with all 4 copium monthly.