If I add you as a friend, it only means two things:

1 - I want to discuss your skin;
2 - I'm willing to offer you a trade, which you can adjust at your discretion;

When I approach you with a request for something, you are a priori the key element. Your skin, your rules. But if you approach me, I rightly expect a certain attitude. Anyone who wants to succeed in negotiations must exercise restraint.

Respect and politeness are the foundation of any communication. If you're feeling aggressive, please take a few breaths, touch the grass, and only then come back. I'll be happy to hear you out. Don't ruin the mood for yourself or others, and certainly don't spit in a well from which you'll one day have to drink.

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"And now you come to me, and you say: 'Don Corleone, give me justice.' But you don't ask with respect, you don't offer friendship, you don't even think to call me Godfather. Instead, you come into my house on the day my daughter is to be married, and you ask me to do murder for money."