Diplomatic functions are so boring.

If I'm playing something we both have and you want to play too, ask, or join my games. My settings are almost always set to "Friends can join"! If you ask and I say no, its just because I wanted some alone time or had tasks to tackle and was out of free time, ask again the next day! And also, I typically will say how long I have left to be on when someone joins out of the blue :)