I really think that many gamers confuse the idea of games and work. Games are not work, games are games, a good example, you don't send in a resume to steam, unless you are going to work for them.

So quit taking it so serious, its not the end of the world if you suck at something that don't matter, instead of focusing your time getter better at what don't matter, get better at putting food on the table. Then as you get better at that, you have more time for what doesn't matter, and you will enjoy it more....cause it doesn't matter.